Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love.
Is it possible to maintain a traditional, Biblical sexual ethic while remaining deeply devoted to LGBT+ and same-sex attracted individuals in your life and community? We think so.
Join us on September 8-9, 2017 in Cincinnati for a weekend training seminar meant to equip leaders and laypersons to step towards loving the LGBT+ community in their own churches and communities with new boldness, all while avoiding common pitfalls that erode relationships, harm faith communities, and damage those who identify as LGBT+.
Attendees will be invited on a journey of both theological study and practical reflection, laying a Biblical framework for reconciliation that frees Christians to love with new boldness without feeling pressure to compromise deeply held beliefs. Build your skills and practice strategies for navigating pitfalls in challenging situations and conversations, allowing God to guide you towards deeper clarity and healing in your closest relationships and life of ministry. This 2-day event format provides a combination of training/education, Biblical and theological study, group interaction and discussion, practice of skills/strategy, and personal prayer/reflection time.
The event will be held at a church located in the Mariemont area of Cincinnati, Ohio. Venue details will be included with your welcome information email after registration. Tips for travel and nearby hotels will be provided to registrants via email for those joining from out of town.
Cost & Scholarship Info:
Registration costs begin at $129 for super-early bird registrations (due by April 24). Costs will cover lunch and snacks, and include take-home resources as well as a 2-hour follow-up consultation with LOVEboldly after the event. Attendees will be responsible for breakfast and dinner (as well as lodging and transportation for out of town travelers).
We would regret if finances prevented your attendance at one of our events. Special pricing ($79) is available for students, and a limited number of scholarships will be available (generally for up to ½ off your registration costs) for interested attendees who do not have the financial resources to attend. To apply for access to the student or scholarship rate, please email firstname.lastname@example.org before registering.
Speakers for this event include:
Heidi is the founder/president of LOVEboldly and has been hosting dialogues with traditionally-minded Christians and the LGBT+ community for the past nine years. Compelled by Christ’s interactions with marginalized folks in the Gospels and disturbed by the stories of LGBT+ friends who had been treated poorly by Christians, Heidi founded LOVEboldly in 2011. Heidi has a B.A. in Media Communications from Asbury University and attended Asbury Theological Seminary from 2011-2013, completing coursework towards an M.A. in Marriage and Family Counseling. Through her leadership of LOVEboldly, Heidi empowers the LGBT+ and Christian communities to step towards loving one another boldly, and engage with dignity and civility in the polarizing conversations surrounding faith and sexuality. Heidi travels and speaks around the country at conferences, universities, and seminaries on the intersection of faith, sexuality, and gender identity. She lives with her husband, Steven, and her dog Malcolm in Cincinnati, OH.
Christy is a graduate of Asbury Theological Seminary where she completed her Masters of Divinity in 2012. Christy has ministered in various national and international contexts and has a heart for LGBTQ youth and young adult discipleship. She has extensive experience working with those seeking to reconcile their faith and sexual orientations, and has worked as a Fellow in the Religion and Faith Department of the Human Rights Campaign, located in Washington, DC. She participated in the inaugural Reformation Project, which seeks to transform church teaching on sexual orientation and gender identity. Christy serves as the editor of Owning Our Stories, a place where LGBTI people, their parents and friends can own their stories by sharing it with others. She also blogs about faith and sexual orientation and serves as a founding board member of LOVEboldly (2011-Present). Christy lives in Lexington, KY and is planning a wedding with her partner Sarah.
Nate is a New Testament PhD candidate, and is studying the construction of gendered identities in Greco-Roman antiquity and in the Pauline tradition. Nate is also a gay man who maintains a traditional Biblical ethic on sexuality. He lives in Louisville, KY with his beloved wife, Sara, and their three sons. He is also the author of a forthcoming volume from Zondervan Academic entitled All But Invisible: Exploring Identity Questions for Gay, Lesbian, and Other Same-Sex Attracted Christians. Nate is passionate about helping pastors and their congregations have theologically balanced, well-informed conversations about gender and sexuality.
Justin Barringer is husband of Rachel, father of Israel and Zoe, and friend of God. He is a PhD student in religious ethics at Southern Methodist University where his research focuses on a variety of justice issues through the lens of Spirit-inspired friendships. He is a pastor, writer, editor, and teacher. Justin has a BA in Oral Communication from Lipscomb University and an MDiv from Asbury Theological Seminary with a focus on Christian ethics. Justin served as a founding board member of LOVEboldly (2011-2015).
Justin’s first book A Faith Not Worth Fighting For: Addressing Commonly Asked Questions about Christian Nonviolence (Cascade, 2012) received widespread praise. He currently has a book project on Christian practices and ethics in the works (forthcoming with Cascade, 2017) and is also working on a series of academic books exploring the intersection of contemporary moral issues and global economic systems. Justin writes and speaks at academic and lay levels on topics such as war and peace, poverty, and sexual ethics.
ALSO FEATURING: Voices of Christians within the LGBT+ and same-sex attracted community will share their stories, insights, hopes, and struggles with attendees.
*TENTATIVE 2017 SCHEDULE:
Friday, Sept. 8th (9 AM – 4:30 PM)
- Framing the Conversation with Scripture and Worship
Inviting God to lead our hearts, minds, and spirits into seeing his vision for the Church and the LGBT+ community.
- Theology Conflicts in Faith, Sexuality, and Gender Identity
Exploring fundamental misunderstandings and missteps between the LGBT+ community and the Church, unpacking big questions on sexuality, faith, and gender identity, creating a model for peace-building and reconciliation in the midst of culture wars, and learning how God’s mission of reconciliation pertains to current divides and relational strain between traditionally-minded Christians and the LGBT+ and same-sex attracted community
- Five Steps to Reconciliation: Step One – Remembrance
How do we remembering rightly, as Christians, when wrongs have been done and division is deep? How do we move forward? In this section, we will discuss the history of division between the LGBT+ community and the Church, and the role of lament and remembrance in guiding us forward.
- Five Steps to Reconciliation: Step Two – Rest
The work of reconciliation can be challenging. What role does rest play in our ability to engage, minister, and continue a sustainable practice of reconciliation in our communities?
- Evening Activity – Local Dialogue on Faith, Sexuality, and Gender Identity
A community conversation in Cincinnati where attendees will get to engage with perspectives from the LGBT+ community. More information coming soon!
Saturday, Sept. 9th (8 AM – 5 PM)
- Five Steps to Reconciliation: Step Three – Repentance
Examining a theology of repentance, its role in reconciliation, and its unique application to the divide between the LGBT+ and same-sex attracted community
- Five Steps to Reconciliation: Step Four – Recompense
Reconciliation is an active work. In this module, we will discuss what practical action steps a Christian can take to be a source of God’s love towards the LGBT+ community, without compromising deeply held beliefs.
- Five Steps to Reconciliation: Step Five – Restoration
Wrapping up our discussion on faith, sexuality, and gender identity, we will ask God to restore us to one another and give us open hearts for next steps in healing broken relationships with LGBT+ and same-sex attracted Christians and friends.
- Living Reconciliation Out: Afternoon Service Project (Optional)
More information coming soon about this opportunity to put all we have learned into practice together, alongside LGBT+ and same-sex attracted friends and believers.
*Schedule subject to change.